What Does It Mean to Love the Church

This is a question I am asking myself and anyone who may read this blog note. In this case I am not talking about loving the church in the sense of the whole Body of Christ on earth. Rather, I am reflecting on what it means to love a congregation of church members.

To truly love the church one must be more than a "worker bee." It seems to me that one must hold the church--every member of the church--in their hearts. As the song says, "I will hold your people in my heart." Back stabbing, power plays, manipulation of people and situations, condescending attitudes or behavior are not the marks of one who truly loves the church and holds the members of the church in their heart. But this is answering the question in a negative way. What does it mean to love the church? How does one show their love for the congregation? I have started a possible list and I would appreciate your responses:

How does one love the church?

• Attends worship services on a regular basis
• Prays for the church and its mission on a daily basis
• Attends Christian Education programs
• Sunday school
• Bible study

• Shows genuine concern and respect for every member of the congregation
• Nonjudgmental
• Shows compassion
• Impartial--no cliques
• Speaks and acts toward other members in a way honors the dignity of the other

• Participates fully  in the fellowship of the congregation (not necessarily every activity or function)
• Respects the dignity of  others even in a disagreement
• Discrete
• Respectful
• Even tempered
• Patient
• Charitable

• Supports the congregation with "time, talents, and treasure"